Why do we bitch, whine and complain about our lives? The job we have, the relationship we are in, the area we live in, the money we spend...am I crazy or aren't those all things we did and/or chose for ourselves. No one forced you to take that job you have hated for the last 2 yrs! Its not mandatory you are in a relationship that makes you wanna run screaming through the woods as opposed to going home. We complain and complain and complain...it is everyone's fault but your own. The economy, the government, our families. Yes, I will be the first to say the government is crappy, the economy sucks, and some of us had some real jacked up family history. However, at what point do we as mature adult women take responsibility for our own life and happiness? If you are unhappy, I have some break news for you...ONLY YOU CAN CHANGE IT!!! We can not sit here day after day upset and angry and unhappy without actively doing something about it. I have said this before and I will continue to say it...We only get ONE chance at this thing called LIFE. It could all end in the blink of an eye. You owe it to yourself to be as happy as you can be. FYI, no one and I mean NO ONE likes a miserable person.
For those of us who have someone who is complaining and unhappy all the time in our lives, take heed and fix it. You can not love them through the angry. You can not fix the issue(s) that have them unhappy and miserable. Even if they claim you are the reason for it, please understand its not about you or what you do or don't do for them, with them and to them. Do not get sucked into the whole poor pitiful me syndrome. If they are unhappy its up to them to FIX IT! I will say that until that person is truly at peace and happy within themselves they will not truly be able to be at peace and happy with you. Now that doesn't mean go out and break up with your miserable girlfriend...there are steps and options that can be taken before you just abandon ship...so don't use this as an excuse to break up with someone. Love is many things and if you can not help the person you love through the bad you do not deserve them in the good.
There is a fine line though between trying to help the person you love over a rough patch and beating your own head into a brick wall, recognize that difference.
There are many wise people who have said do not be unevenly yoked one to another...if your on the path to betterment, and others around you are not, if there pulling you down you must do what is best for you. Pray on it, mediate about it, but do not stay in an unhealthy situation regardless of what it may be!
For those of you who are unhappy, disenchanted, less than content with something in your life it is YOUR LIFE, YOUR HAPPINESS...I say either get the hell up and be about making some changes, or shut the hell up and suffer in silence. I am all about the bottomline, cut and dry, straight shots no chasers....
See ya'll again soon. Please feel free to comment below!
